I'm also not going to talk about specific things that are said here,
If i feel the urge of doing so, i will use PM to speak to that person.
i have only this in my mind,
sometimes, (AND I AM NOT MENTIONING ANY NAME !!!) the "click" on the "Post" or "Send" button can have the effect like a few liters / gallons of gasoline on a burning object.
I hope that the involved people can work things out, i would not like to see members leave.
if not, then that is the choise of them, and so be it.
thats for now what i have to say about all this,